tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7279456524893953887.post6862516311050248230..comments2023-04-02T05:14:49.503-05:00Comments on Masochistically Defiant: Getting and GivingMonstrsNightmarehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01255178217062735503noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7279456524893953887.post-72995148357931108362012-03-12T20:04:30.408-05:002012-03-12T20:04:30.408-05:00Sooo agree. Monster is the first person to not try...Sooo agree. Monster is the first person to not try to change me, the core me, instead he helps build me up. There's this equal balance of vulnerability and trust between the both of us. I know that in his eyes, I am the most beautiful soul and his perfect match. It's the same for me, he is my perfect match. He feeds my littleness as much as my littleness feeds his Daddy-ness. <br /><br />And with all that, we have this deep connection that has braved and withstood manh, many storms.MonstrsNightmarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01255178217062735503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7279456524893953887.post-89281418208540969552012-03-12T15:38:05.307-05:002012-03-12T15:38:05.307-05:00It is! There is a definite flow of energy. There s...It is! There is a definite flow of energy. There should be in every relationship, but I think it is stronger or more defined/visible in a D/s relationship. Maybe because there is a higher level of communication. The inherent trust and vulnerability make for a deeper intimacy.<br /><br />And the need? Yes, the need is deep and profound. I think because for the first time in my life and I can be all of who I am, without fear or reservation, and be accepted and loved and treasured, really treasured as beautiful (I have NEVER in my life been beautiful before) and unique. <br /><br />I make him smile and laugh big belly laughs, delighted bubbly laughs, and I can hear the joy in his voice. It feels good to be delightful. He delights me, too.Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.com