30 Days of Submission: Day 1

I know I have started this here in the past, but I think this time, with the help of Mortuary Chick, I might be able to actually make it through this 30 Days of Submission. She's the very best partner in crime for this exercise. Honestly, I think she is what has inspired me to keep posting here this past week. Go show her some serious love.

Mushy, happy-feelings aside, I'll get to the prompt. Lol

Day 1: Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why?

--I'm going to break this down into individual paragraphs for each question. That way I won't be as confused when answering. It's been one of those days... 

Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label?

The short answer: No, it doesn't have a label besides being his. 

The long answer: I am his little girl, his smart-mouth masochist, his lil miss, his good little housewife. So whatever labels you want to put on that, be my guest. I like the label of his girl. 

Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination?

A little bit of TiH mixed with DD, a pinch of D/s, and heaping dollop of DD/lg. With a sprinkling of plain old husband and wife... you know... for extra crazy. We're so many things that narrowing it down to just a few dynamics is kind of hard. There are parts of our relationship that would fall under many different umbrellas. All I know, is that whatever we are, we're in sync and happy. 

And at the end of the day, that's all that really matters. We've got a relationship that works for us.

 If you do not use a label, why?

We don't really like using labels, because then we get lumped with expectations of how we are supposed to be.

 If I say we're D/s, there's going to be those people that think I am a crap sub. And a lot of times, they're right, I would be a horrible sub for them. They aren't my Monster and I don't give two-squirts about whether I make them happy or not.

 I'm not a little to a lot of people, because I like Suicide Silence, Avenged Sevenfold, and Type O Negative, not 1D or Justin Beaver or Miley Cyrus. (Sadly, I have been told this makes me less of a little. *eyeroll*)

Labels are more trouble than they are worth, because preconceived notions will keep people from looking past that label and seeing what you really are. A human. That has likes and dislikes, just like everybody else.